The Gift of Violence: Practical Knowledge for Surviving and Thriving in a Dangerous World

Praise for The Gift of Violence: Practical Knowledge for Surviving and Thriving in a Dangerous World

“Violence as a ‘gift’? Sounds topsy-turvy—and yet Matt Thornton presents his contrarian take at a moment when society itself has gone topsy-turvy. Writing amid a shocking uptick in violent crime and anarchic calls to defund the police, Thornton lays out a proactive regimen for negotiating a world that increasingly feels like ‘every man for himself.’ Or too often, sadly, every woman. This is not just some warmed-over martial-arts primer; it is a seamless mindset with anthropological and sociological underpinnings. And if anyone is qualified to write such a book it’s Thornton, as even a glance at his resume confirms. Consider this a survival textbook for a troubling new era in American life.” —Steve Salerno, New York Times best-selling author of Sham

“For many years Matt Thornton has been one of the most passionate ambassadors of the martial art of Jiu-Jitsu. His new book, The Gift of Violence, examines violence in the twenty-first century. Matt encourages his readers to apply lessons he has learned in Jiu-Jitsu to every aspect of their lives. Above all, The Gift of Violence makes it clear that Jiu-Jitsu is not just a sport; it is also a philosophy that makes one strong enough to forgive, and when necessary, confident enough to fight.” —Rickson Gracie, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and Mixed Martial Arts legend

“There is an evolutionary logic to violence that makes it part of human nature. The sooner we understand this fact the better we will be at knowing when and where to apply violence in the most moral and practical manner, both politically and personally. To the latter end, this may be one of the most important books ever written on self-improvement, inasmuch as the lessons imparted within will make you stronger, smarter, and safer. Read it and grow.” —Michael Shermer, founder and publisher of Skeptic Magazine

“Our immediate instinct may be to turn away from violence—to ignore it even, but as Matt Thornton’s book powerfully illustrates, it’s only through fully understanding violence as an essential part of our society and psyche that we can ensure that its appearance in our own lives is minimized. Thornton’s book is an important encyclopedic and philosophical record of our relationship with violence, asking us to consider why it’s important to recognize its early signs, how it can be used effectively as a deterrent, how it can be controlled within us and others, and why we need it at all. . . . At the wrong time and with the wrong intention, violence is destructive and cruel. Given the correct conditions though, it becomes a moral imperative.” —Katherine Brodsky, journalist

“Matt Thornton's book is something surprisingly rare: a serious and empirical examination of violence, and more broadly of human nature and particularly male human nature. A remarkable number of smart people today, as me sainted mother once put it, ‘feel guilty about the fact people are a predator species.’ That is, they begin with the starting premise that our nature is flawed, there is something wrong with biological reality, and we ‘should’ almost all be very different creatures from who we are. Thornton, a martial arts master and skilled writer, avoids this fundamental error. In an enjoyable 400-pager divided into five distinct sections, he discusses the actual biological and cultural roots of violence, the ‘folly’ of both pacifism and bluff machismo, the strategic behavior of predators human and otherwise, and the best empirical techniques for avoiding having to suffer or deal our harm. The book is, if you will, a hit.” —Wilfred Reilly, associate professor at Kentucky State University and the author of Hate Crime Hoax and Taboo